Show Notes
The Hate U Give
- The Hate You Give is a powerful story about a young black girl who witnesses the murder of her childhood friend at the hands of a police officer.
- The book is always, always better than the movie – but The Hate You Give comes pretty close.
- The issues that The Hate U Give touches on are ones that many people are struggling with today – racism, profiling, poverty, lack of privilege, and violence are everyday challenges for many.
- Awareness, authenticity, and trust are key
in diffusing racial tension. - It’s important to have the conversations, lean in, speak your truth, and seek understanding. Ignorance is not acceptable.
- Trust = Behavior + Time
- The power to change the world happens when we get to know each other well enough to share our stories. ~ Kellye Abernathy
- The answer is love. Once you’re open to it, everything changes. ~ Raven Robinson
Discussion Questions for The Hate U Give
- Which character did you identify with the most in the book? Why?
- Starr felt she had to be two different people to survive in the two worlds she lived in. When have you ever felt like you had to change who you are or how you act in order to be accepted?
- What do you think inspired Angie Thomas to write this story? What do you think she’s trying to change in the world with The Hate U Give?
- Starr realizes that Khalil is working for King and selling drugs. She knows that it’s because he’s trying to provide for his sick grandmother and his sisters. When, if ever, is it okay to do something wrong in order to survive? Was there a different choice could Khalil have made?
- In both the book and the movie, Starr was taught how to respond if she was stopped by the police. Why do you think Khalil didn’t follow those same “rules”? Would he still be alive if he had?
- In the movie, Uncle Carlos admits that even he would hesitate in the same situation if Khalil had been a white man in a suit with a nice car. Why do you think there is a difference?
- Before reading (or seeing) The Hate U Give, what did you know about police shootings? How has The Hate U Give changed your perspective?
- Reading or seeing THUG brings up the idea of privilege. Where do you see privilege in your own life?
- What did you learn or discover by reading or watching THUG? How has it made you look at the world differently? What would it look like to take action on that new knowledge?
Referenced in this Episode
Raven Robinson, also known as Raven Love, is a
Kellye Abernathy is a writer, a yoga instructor, an advocate, and a mentor. She is a lover of all things book-related and is passionate about being in
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I have not read the book. I did take my 15 year old and 12 year old to see the movie but my 15 year old actually read the book. I love what Raven and Kelly was saying. They are from two different worlds.
Thanks, Shunece! I loved what they were saying too – they’re both amazing ladies, with so much wisdom. I hope seeing the movie with your kids was a good experience – it’s a powerful film.
Good conversation between everyone! I think this is a topic that should be discussed more often…. especially to understand everyone’s perception of this topic. I feel we can learn a lot from one another, but we have to get to the point where the conversations are being talked about.!
So true, Luciana! It’s a powerful thing to sit down and have these kinds of discussions. Raven and Kellye are great at modeling what that looks like at its best. 🙂
Love it 🙂
Thanks, Kiara!
I love it I love Raven personality she is amazing I work with her and she is a light ever where she goes love what she is doing
Thanks, Lasheaka! I agree – she is an incredible woman. 🙂 I was honored to have her on the podcast!